Leah’s Click

Leah Shapiro a Kick-Ass Life Coach & Head Rabble Rouser at http://www.DefytheBox.com. Leah helps creative, non-conforming souls uncover the pre-packaged beliefs that prevent them from living their version of a Kick-Ass Life.  When she is not focused on working with clients, building her Empire or hosting My Kick-Ass Dream Life Radio you can usually find her making pottery, playing with her two cats or whipping up something delicious in the kitchen. A self admitted hedonist, Leah is frequently off engaging in pleasurable pursuits and is known to be a mighty temptress.

You can read Leah’s blog here: http://www.DefytheBox.com/blog

The Rock

Back in the day, I was part of a really cool woman’s mystery school and leadership program called the Priestess Path Apprenticeship. This program was truly amazing and opened the way for deep personal


This group of 24 women gathered together once a month and spent time in circle exploring many mystical practices and initiations aimed at making us confront our fear and inner-demons in order to know
ourselves better. It was very powerful work.


One of the things we did was called the Quest. Each of us was lead on a
journey down a dark path through an unknown forest. There were many
stops along the way designed to challenge you and make you think. At one
stop you were asked how heavy your past emotional baggage weighed on
you. Then you were given a big rock to carry with you along the path to
represent your baggage.


Let me tell you that carrying that rock sucked! It was awkward and took
so much energy. It weighed me down. At each new stop along the trail it
became more and more irritating. The longer I carried it, the heavier it
became and the more I focused on it. I was not able to enjoy the cool
stuff I was coming across along the path because I was so focused on
carrying the rock and how much it sucked. The rock became the focus of


Finally, I got fed up and decide to throw the rock off into the woods.
Boy what a relief. I felt free. The Quest was fun again. I wondered why
I did not ditch the rock sooner.


Interesting enough, I was the only one who chose to ditch their rock.
Everyone else kept lugging the thing along until they came to a stop
where someone else relived them of it. It never occurred to them that
they might have a choice in the matter.


I wonder how many of you are carrying around a Rock of your own without
giving thought to the idea that you have a choice in the matter.


There is always a choice.


Choose to let it go and focus on what feels good to you right now.


Choose to enjoy the adventure.


Ditch the Rock!


6 thoughts on “Leah’s Click

  1. Jenny Defx October 19, 2010 / 6:13 am

    Love it! So glad you are back.

  2. Anna October 19, 2010 / 7:31 am

    thanks for this click, leslee …
    leah … i believe you’re right on!

    we lug around the past, false beliefs, human conditioning that we’ve been fed … “let go or get dragged” …

    so heavy are misperceptions that we carry around
    when all the while we’re on holy ground

    laying down all concepts … every false facade
    reveals the Omnipresence of God

    lighten up!
    we’ve probably all wondered how angels can fly?
    they take themselves so lightly … that is why!


    • Leah October 19, 2010 / 9:37 am

      Hi Anna,
      Love this==>>” lighten up!
      we’ve probably all wondered how angels can fly?
      they take themselves so lightly … that is why!”


  3. Kim Jenkins October 19, 2010 / 9:32 am

    Ditch the rock…what a simple concept…..sometimes I think we’re looking for permission. “Is it okay for me to drop this rock? Is it okay for me to feel this good?” Thank you for your story. So simple, yet so powerful.

    • Leah October 19, 2010 / 9:41 am

      HI Kim,

      I think your right with the idea that it is simple…but we are looking for permission.
      During the “Quest” that I was on…I was the only one who thought to ditch the rock. Everyone else carried it until someone relieved them of it. Matter of fact….the people facilitating were so surprised that I had thrown mine off into the woods…they didn’t know what to say to me for that section of the quest. No-one had ever done that before.

      I say that it is time to give ourselves permission to “ditch the rock”!

      • meeshelleneal October 19, 2010 / 1:33 pm

        Nice job! I love that you did that and it probably was so symbolic you also let go of a lot of what the rock was representing.

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